My Dance with Competence I am a competent person. And I would have said that I feel pretty much at peace with my basic competence. Except for one thing: A few years back, when I was beginning to notice things with more awareness, I noticed a pattern that wasn’t serving me. I …
Every result you create in your life flows from the answer to this question. It’s a question that you probably don’t know you are asking, and which you are answering unconsciously all the time: Is it good enough? Is it good enough for ME? Do I trust my own ability to know what is good …
Will your Emergency to lead to Emergence? I love it when I see a deeper meaning in words, and this morning’s addition to the elegance and truth in words was priceless. I finally heard the word EMERGENCY in its true light. An emergency is when things get so bad that they just cannot …
What is a fully Connected and Engaged life? Eight years ago I had a moment when I looked at my life and decided to make it different. I was deeply frustrated by what was happening – or more to the point, what was NOT happening. I knew I was “phoning it in” as they …
Asking HOW vs WHY Yesterday I received this question via email…it's such a great question, I decided to answer it here. May it serve! Hey, Scout, Thanks a lot for this life changing tool! (My Change the Question video) I love your info, but am a litlle confused which question is more powerful, "why" …
The Dance of Life is an ongoing allowing of what is, in this moment, while feeling grateful for what is coming. The resistance to what is, is merely one step in the dance. It can stop us, when we choose to let it. Or, we can just remember that it is just one of …
Finding and Speaking Your Authentic Voice Are you a woman who would like to help to profoundly change the world? Then the Key is Finding and Speaking Your Authentic Voice: your own voice. Consider: Right now today: Of 190 heads of state, 9 are women. In the Corporate sector, 15 to 16% of the top positions …
These days, “coming out” is mostly taken to mean coming out of the closet and saying you are gay or Lesbian. There are so many more very scary ways to come out. Whatever your own personal “coming out” entails, it is always about one thing: Coming out as who you really are, claiming your powerful, …
In our culture we've demonized the gift of menopause because of its connection to getting old. I'd like to offer a different thought. In the natural energetic rhythms of a woman's life, as mothers and partners, we give give give of ourselves all our lives, literally being prepared to give our body away each …
We are all walking around in our own personal trance all the time. This thought is from Milton Erickson, arguably the greatest hypnotist who ever lived. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis. All your internal decisions are self-hypnosis. All of life is self-hypnosis. You have convinced yourself that things in life are a certain way. …