Are you gnashing your teeth, trying to change or alter something? Does it feel like you’re fighting yourself – and losing? You probably are. Consider this: The Equation of Change A person will not change or alter themselves as long as their perceived level of dissatisfaction is less than their perception of how much energy …
My Dance with Competence I am a competent person. And I would have said that I feel pretty much at peace with my basic competence. Except for one thing: A few years back, when I was beginning to notice things with more awareness, I noticed a pattern that wasn’t serving me. I …
Asking HOW vs WHY Yesterday I received this question via email…it's such a great question, I decided to answer it here. May it serve! Hey, Scout, Thanks a lot for this life changing tool! (My Change the Question video) I love your info, but am a litlle confused which question is more powerful, "why" …
Creative Solutions Workshop Surrender to your Brilliance Find Your Best Ideas and Solutions through Creative Play Feb 8 & 9, 2013 Live Workshop Alexis Park Resort, Las Vegas, Nevada Connect the dots of your life in fun new ways. Find your best, most brilliant ideas and creative solutions. Imagine stepping out …
Quick and easy, 3 minute video tool. Do you find affirmations a bit hard to swallow? Like: “If I believed that, I’d be doing it already!” right? While I do know affirmations can work, to me they feel a bit like hitting your inner mind with a two-by-four, to beat it into accepting something it …
What I wrote a couple of days ago about the power of pure positive feedback made me remember another related story I wanted to share with you, from another art class. When I was learning watercolors, I was part of a wonderful small group of women who were jumping in eagerly, even though much of …
How I got caught – and served – by coaching’s most powerful premise. So – there I was in day three of the seminar, feeling good, happy with how I was showing up, interacting powerfully and pleasantly…when I got the rug pulled out from under me and I had to look at EVERYTHING differently. It …
Let me tell you a story about a woman who lived in a sweet little house, which was completely cluttered. There were piles of magazines and newspapers, and boxes of stuff that wouldn’t fit on shelves; it was actually hard to walk through her home without feeling like you were exploring an old dusty attic. …
How do I get myself started again, when I’ve gotten out of the habit of taking action in some area? Here are three specific, proven techniques I use on myself.
Do you sometimes feel like you’re dragging around a ball and chain, when you set out to accomplish something? It can be crazy sometimes – we really want to do a certain project, and yet when we try to get started, we come up with all kinds of things to put in the way. Make …